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Eva Illouz

Unloving - A Sociology of Negative Relations

(German title: Warum Liebe endet)
ca. 400 pages
Clothbound
2018
Eva Illouz
Foto: Eva Illouz
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Eva Illouz, born in 1961 in Morocco, is Professor at the Department of Sociology and Anthropology at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem.

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»The Analysis of the year.« Literatur Spiegel

Approximately 10.000 copies sold in Germany in the first three weeks

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Western culture has endlessly represented the ways in which love miraculously erupts in people's lives – the mythical moment in which one knows someone is destined to us, the feverish waiting for a phone call or an email, the thrill that runs our spine at the mere thought of him or her. To be in love is to become an adept of Plato, to see through a person an idea, perfect and complete. Endless novels, poems, or movies teach us the art of becoming Plato’s disciples, loving the perfection manifested by the beloved. Yet, a culture that has so much to say about love is far more silent on the no less mysterious moment when we avoid falling in love, where we fall out of love, when the one who kept us awake at night now leaves us indifferent, when we hurry away from those who excited us a few months or a few hours ago.

Unloving is Eva Illouz’ last installment in a two-decades-long study on the ways in which capitalism and the culture of modernity have transformed our emotional and romantic life. It inquires into the cultural and social conditions which explain what has become an ordinary feature of sexual and romantic relations: leaving them. What are the cultural and emotional mechanisms that make people revise, undo, reject, and avoid relationships? What is the emotional dynamic by which a romantic preference changes? By drawing on a wide range of sources – from Emile Durkheim to Jane Austen, from Karl Marx to Lena Dunham – and forcefully engaging with the question of emotional and sexual freedom, she reveals the choice to unchoose as a crucial modality of subjectivity – and unloving as one of the pivotal conditions of relationships in the era of radical personal freedom.

Praise

»Why Love Hurts has all the thrills of a murder mystery, with the difference that page after page the reader is made aware of why she herself is a real life perpetrator or victim or both at once.« SZ on Why Love Hurts

»Nobody has analyzed the effects that the internet and capitalism have on love with more passion and precision than the Israeli sociologist. She has been dedicated to the subject for two decades and for the time being, Unloving represents the conclusion of her research project.« Spiegel Online

»Eva Illouz’ keen eye for asymmetries within the relationship between the genders is not the punch line but rather the premise of her disillusioning diagnosis of the present condition of love. […] Her nuanced observations cannot be reduced to simple theses. They deal with the negative aspects of what has been regarded as a positive liberation since the 18th century.« Der Tagesspiegel

»A new book by Eva Illouz is always a remarkable experience. Like no one else in the field of societal diagnostics, she aims at once at head and heart. […] And one thing always applies to Illouz’ work: You won’t necessarily become more cheerful as you read, but you’ll definitely become smarter and more alert.« Literatur Spiegel

»[The] liberal economic premise according to which everybody can accomplish anything if only they apply themselves […] also whispers in our ear: If it’s just not working, it’s not ›true‹ love. But the only goal of a satisfied market is not the happy person but a never-ending longing. Illouz considers the unmasking of this delusion in all its manifestations her task. She succeeds, once again, with brilliance.« der Freitag                          

»Eva Illouz supports her detailed, logically unfolding analysis with humanistic and sociological explorations.« BR

»A superb book on a highly actual and ever-present, if often repressed, subject ... « Bücherrundschau

»An enlightening study that radically scrutinises the contemporary concept of love.« DIE ZEIT

Other publications

Die große Regression/The Great Regression (2017)

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Die neue Liebesordnung/Hard-Core Romance (2013)

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Warum Liebe weh tut/Why Love Hurts (2011)

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Gefühle in Zeiten des Kapitalismus/Cold Intimacies (2006)

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